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Relationship & Trust Building Cards (Print-N-Play)

2/28/2025

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A recent client wanted me to begin their requested teambuilding program (for six people) with a trust activity. The client was concerned about the trust level in this particular management team. Instead of explaining my belief that every experiential group activity has the potential to focus on the concept of trust I simply agreed to include one.

Serendipitously, I ran across an activity called 'Trust' while searching SessionLab for reflection activities. [The link goes to a post called, '53 team building activities for work (and to have fun!)' – mentioned in the last FUNdoing post. Scroll down to the 'Team Bonding' section in the post to find the details for the Trust activity from the Thiagi Group.] I decided to use this one for a 'Consider & Tag' experience as a way to find out some of the top concepts and behaviors the team of six had about trust in the moment.


Building Relationships & Trust Cards – Consider & Tag (my name for the experience)

Needs & Numbers: One set of 30 R&T Cards (and some blank cards - included in the PDF) for a group of 6 to 24. You'll also need some markers (I like providing Sharpies), some masking or painters tape (easier to remove from the walls and the cards), and some small pads of PostIt notes). 

Set Up: My favorite way to set up the cards is to tape them on an open wall (safe to tape things onto – some places do not like things taped to their walls). I tape the cards with some good distance away from each other (if I have it), so when participants are doing a little 'Gallery Walk' to 'Consider' the information on each card, there is room to move around each other.

In the case of my group of six, I placed the cards around the the edges of the large conference room table in the room (another way to display the cards). I had enough room around the (gigantic) table to spread the cards out enough to make room for viewing. 

There have been Consider & Tag experiences where I scattered the cards around on the floor as well. Be creative with the space you have. Just be sure there's lots of room to move around the cards.  

Process: The basic frontloading I use for any Consider & Tag experience is to present the related concept the cards support and then provide some time for the participants to consider which cards are most important to them. This consideration period can be anywhere from 3 to 10 minutes (or more) depending on the groups objectives and the time you have.

Then, there will be a time for everyone to 'Tag' their top choices. The number of tags everyone gets varies based on the amount of time you have for the experience. For example, I tend to give groups larger that 12 three tags (each person's top three choices), and groups of 12 or less I ask everyone to tag their top five choices.

Tagging shouldn't take too long, participants will have a pretty good idea (after considering) of their top choices once they begin tagging. Before tagging, everyone will need a little pack of PostIts. (I take the standard pack of PostIts and break them up into 4 or 5 little packs and put all these little packs in a convenient place to pick up.)

Then, decide, based on the group, if you would like each person to write their first name on their PostIts or leave them blank. Is the group ready to let everyone know their choices, or will it be better to be (somewhat) anonymous? Once the tagging process is understood by the group, let them tag away.

When someone is done with their tagging, they can return to their seat (if you are set up for sitting), or they can spend more time 'considering' – walking through the cards some more to see if they want to change their mind, or take a little break until everyone is done. 
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When the tagging is complete, it's time to look at the data. Let participants quietly return to some gallery walking to see what was tagged. I like to remind my groups that the data represents what their group members find most important to them in that moment – it doesn't mean cards without tags are not important. There have been a few times, based on a group's objectives, when we also spent a little time talking about diverse perspectives. 
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Processing: After an appropriate amount of time to review the data (gallery walk), the group can discuss the findings. Here are my two favorite questions during this part:
  • What is the data telling you? 
  • What else is the data telling you? 

Of course, there are a variety of ways to discuss the group's experience based on their objectives. I like this process because it brings a BIG concept (in my latest experience with the cards, building trust) into some focus as to what is most important to the group at the time. In my example, my group of six started talking about the top tagged cards (above) and were ready to develop some future actions to put the concepts and behaviors into practice.​
Extending Idea I had a little time to try something with this management team of six to experience some consensus-building. I asked them to rank the six cards shown above in order of importance. I said, "If you were to use these concepts and behaviors as your immediate priorities and put team into action, which one would you start with, then, what would be your second, third, fourth and so on." 

After about 10 minutes, I stopped the group to notice the point that 'deciding' on priorities and actions takes time and commitment, as they already knew. So, I said, "As a group, how do you want to go about allocating the time you need to tackle the goals you have for yourselves in the coming months?" (This was a task I left them to think about and address during the second day of their retreat.) 

If building consensus skills was one of the group's objectives, I would have provided more time for them to work out the priority of the cards. But with the brief encounter with the exercise, the group recognized the point. (And I know I can extend this process with any Consider & Tag activity in the future.) 

Here are the Relationship & Trust Building Cards. Let me know how they work for you. Leave us a Comment. 
relationshiptrustbuildingcards_cavert_2025.pdf
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All the best, 

Chris Cavert, Ed.D. 

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The A-Files (Vol. 4)

2/14/2025

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Here's another installment of The A-Files. I run across short activity snippets in my piles and files (both paper and digital) all the time, from conference workshops to ideas generated in that space between asleep and awake. Some fast (short-form) fun that might catch on. Check out the others volumes: Vol.1, Vol.2, Vol.3 
What You Say – Courageous or Play It Safe

What You Say is a staple icebreaker in my programming repertoire. It's a tell-things-about-yourself experience with some 'challeges' by choice built in. I often use it to frontload a program to talk about the adventures ahead, the opportunities everyone has to choose their level of challenge along the way, and the chance to explore ones comfort zones in a supportive environment. My friend Jon shared another challenge he includes with this one. (Jon told me he calls this Brave or Play it Safe. I use 'courageous' in order to weave in some of the work from Brene' Brown. See below.) 

Using a deck of standard playing cards, take out the face cards and then scatter out the Aces through 10s on top of a table or on the floor, rank side up (making a pool of cards). Before getting into the instructions of the activity, frontload the experience with a discussion about the concepts of courage and playing it safe. (Brene' Brown talks about 'ordinary courage' – the fact that most people make courageous (i.e., brave) decisions every day. Being courageous is not always about epic deeds. Just getting up each morning and facing the day can be a courageous act.) Then, provide the instructions and share this final directive with everyone before they choose a card: "Before you choose a card, I'd like you to make a choice. For this first round, will you choose to play it safe, or be courageous? If your choice to play it safe, and remember this is your truth, your choice, choose a lower number. If you want to step out of your comfort zone a bit, be courageous, choose a higher number. Once you've picked up a card, pair up with someone in the group to share the information about yourself. If there is still some time left after sharing, ask each other questions about what you heard your parter tell you." 

After the first round (e.g., 3 to 4 minutes), discuss with your group some of the reasons people chose the card/number they did. Be mindful about lining up this discussion with the program objectives of the group. After the discussion, collect all the cards, return them to the pool, mix them around, and then ask everyone to choose another card – playing it safe or being courageous. Play out a second round and then discuss the choices they made this time, and why? 

Note: I've used this version of What You Say a few times now. However, I've placed it in the middle of my program sequence, reasoning that participants should have some time interacting experientially with each other before they are given a choice between being courageous and playing it safe. Using this one too early could force them to choose a higher number than they really want in order to 'save face' and not look 'weak' or 'chicken.' Build up some psychological safety and group support behaviors before this didactic choice and make the conversations meaningful. 
Rope Challenge

I love to find (and develop) team building activities using webbing or rope. I found this energizer (my distinction) at the Develop Good Habits website (not a fan of all the adds, but I do run into content I like at this site from time-to-time).

Needs & Numbers: Use a 15-foot webbing (Raccoon) circle with groups of 4 or 5 or a 50-foot ropes circle with one group of 10 to 20.


Process:
  • Make a circle (tie the ends) out of your webbing/rope for each group in play.
  • Each group lays out their circle on the ground or floor.
  • Each group stands inside their circle and sets up their webbing/rope so it is taut on the back of their ankles.
  • The challenge, for each group in play, is to move the webbing/rope up from their ankles to their wrists without touching the webbing/rope with their hands.
  • When the webbing/rope reaches waist level, everyone in the group must raise their arms/hands up over their heads and keep moving the webbing/rope until it reaches their wrists.
'Hummdinger'

My circle of fun grew recently. My new acquaintance Silvio reached out and shared one of his adventures with me – the "Activities and Games by Silvio" YouTube channel. He's just getting started – you know I Subscribed. In his current batch of videos I found 'Hummdinger.' Love it! A nice interactive group clustering activity requiring audio communication – Humming. Do check out Silvio's video and explanation (link above). 

Quick Synopsis: Provide and practice, by humming, four well-known songs like Twinkle Twinkle Little Star; Row, Row, Row Your Boat; The Alphabet Song – "A, B, C, D, E, F, G....; Queen Songs, ABBA Songs, or Songs from musicals – anything popular with your group. Have some fun practicing the songs so everyone is humming loudly in preparation. Then, ask everyone to quietly choose one of the songs – don't tell anyone. When ready, ask everyone to start humming their chosen song, mingle around the group and find others in the group humming the same song. Same songs stay together, humming and gathering up others humming their tune. When everyone is in a group, go around and let each group hum a few lines of their song to identify themselves to everyone – nice and loud.
One Breath Feedback

I'm often asked about how to prevent (or limit) over-sharing (i.e., talking to much), especially during a reflection session when time is limited. Here is a crafty way to set a boundary on talking (click on title above for full details). I found this idea at the SessionLab Post 1/21/25 (This particular activity is way down in the 'Check Out and Recap' section of the page – I thought you might like to see the entire post. LOTS of activity ideas.)

Quick Synopsis: After sitting down for a reflection session, ask your group a question that will highlight some learning from the last activity. Tell everyone to quietly THINK about the question, then SHRINK down their thoughts into the important points, and then (breath deeply and) SHARE their highlights with the group using only one exhaled breath. After everyone has had the opportunity to share, ask another question participants can respond to in one exhaled breath of time.
Thank you for the work you do. Be courageous out there!

Chris Cavert, Ed.D. 

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